How Do You Measure a Life?

I’ve been amazed over the years how words trip in and out of vogue in certain communities. When I was a graduate student, the journals, magazine articles, and study carrel conversations were filled with the phrase “paradigm shift”, referring to change in the assumptions of many Western Christians. Less formally, “shucks” became “stink” became “snap”. Leadership writing today prolifically promulgates the term “metrics”, as in, “Your process is deficient. It has no metric. How can you evaluate production?”

 
Enter your average pastor or missionary. You want to keep it moving on all fronts. You value learning. You desire to see God’s Kingdom gain influence far and wide. Perhaps in your reading you discover “metrics” and, as so often happens, it becomes the fascinating new concept that will revolutionize your ministry. Everything then becomes wrapped around measurability. While this concept or technique is useful, it can also derail the truly important. How do you measure the value of a casual conversation? Can you remember a conversation that changed the course of your life? How can you measure the value of faithful, consistent prayer? Can you graph the empirical changes in someone’s attitude or spiritual condition by creating a new “metric”?

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The Preacher’s Sunday Morning Prayer Pledge.

What do you pray about on Sunday mornings?  Do you pray for lost souls?  We all do that at times.  But what about the times when you don’t feel like a “healthy pastor” and you’d rather stay in bed?  Do you pray that you’ll just be able to make it through the morning?  Do you pray that no one will notice how unprepared you are or how beat up you feel?  I’ve been there when the well is dry and I have nothing to give.  It’s at those times that I’m thankful that this preaching business is not all about me, my skills, or even my passion.  It’s about what the Holy Spirit can do in the lives of people even when my preaching is poor.  I’m thankful for that.

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Who’s Under Whose Authority? (Post by Tom)

I have a dilemma.  Both Steve and I come from theological backgrounds where most of “our” churches have “Elder-run Boards”.  We can always debate the soundness of that.  And there are days when I totally wish I served on a “Pastor-run Board.”  OK—whatever your conviction: different strokes for different folks.  But now I am in a situation where our church is grooming a young man who will become the permanent Sr. Pastor.  (For the record, my only title at the church where I’ve served for about three years now, is “Interim Pastor).  My slogan—which I’ve used before the congregation is: “He must increase; I must decrease”.  I can now only say “Easier said than done!”  In reality it is very difficult to turn loose of power and authority. Continue reading

Liberating Ministry From The Success Syndrome (Book Reviews)

Welcome to our first installment of “Book Reviews”.  I know I’m not the only one out there in ministry who has been blessed by a book recommendation before.    In fact, I still carry with me one or two jewels that came my way from mentors when we headed to Russia right out of college.  So I know that recommendations can be helpful.  That’s what we want to do here in this category of Healthy Pastors.  To launch this section, I’m including a review that was actually done by my wife.  I’ve got a number of “To Read” books on my desk and Debi snagged this one before I got to it.  But from the snippets she read me, I think this work address a huge need to ministers and pastors today.  You can also order through the links we put here.  If you have read this book or can speak on the subject, feel free to chime in.  Enjoy! Continue reading

White Space

I’ve been writing newsletters for over twenty years, mostly as a missionary but also the church newsletter when I was a pastor. One consistent piece of advice I’ve had over the years is that every newsletter should have wide margins and lots of white space. When the page is uncluttered it is easier for the reader to follow what’s being written rather than being distracted by the noise and visual dissonance on the page. As often as possible, even when I was tempted to write too many words and cram too much into a given space, I cut the verbiage down, simplified, and kept the message straightforward.
I’ve read a lot of newsletters over the years. The ones that don’t respect the rule of white space usually send a shiver through my soul and create an inner cringe. The writer’s all-too-important message is lost in the crowd (of words).
If the rule of white space is true for a newsletter, what does it look like when applied to a life? Your life is on display. Continue reading

Here to Help!

I’ve been in some form of professional ministry for quite a while now and I’d be the first to tell you that it’s a hard gig at times.  By professional ministry, I’m not talking about a mere career path that one takes, but a calling on one’s life.  For me it means that I am called to what I do the same way a surgeon is called to Medicine.  I don’t do it for a pay check, though it’s nice when I get one, I do it because it is who I am. There are many joys in this calling.  But there are many heart aches and trials as well.  So the purpose of this site is to support those with a full-time ministry calling in their lives.  Our main author for Healthy Pastors is a guy named Tom Salter from California.  I met Tom when we did a church plant in the Nor Cal a few years ago.  Tom has a huge heart for pastors and he is actually the brain child for this page.  Another author is a very good friend of mine going all the way back to my college days.  Todd Owen has had experience on the foreign mission field, the located church ministry, and is presently directing discipleship and care for missionaries with New Mission Systems International.